I want you to think about this question throughout this entire article, “Are you ready or willing to receive?
One of the most important aspects of being a woman is your capacity for receiving. By design, we are natural receivers. We are biologically predisposed to receiving. It is a component of our feminine nature. That is what makes us attractive, and a big part of our strength is our capacity for receiving.
Receiving, or being given something, is a concept that many women find challenging. It can include receiving assistance from complete strangers, help with items, financial assistance, compliments, and receiving of new individuals into our lives.
What is the art of receiving?
The art of receiving refers to the skill or practice of gracefully accepting or welcoming what is given or offered to us. It involves being open, appreciative, and receptive to the kindness, gifts, feedback, or experiences that come our way.
It also involves letting go of any resistance, expectations, or preconceived notions we may have and embracing whatever comes to us with gratitude and an open heart. By cultivating the art of receiving, we can enhance our relationships, attract abundance into our lives, and create a more harmonious and fulfilling existence.
What is the difference between dreaming vs. receiving?
A dreamer, also known as a wisher, is someone who constantly prays, sends out his ideas and wants, and is so preoccupied with dreaming that he derives all of his pleasure from the dream.
She or he is unaware that letting go of their dream and letting it do its thing will eventually bring it back to them for good.
After you have created a clear, precise description of your goal, release your thought toward your higher self. Let it go, just as you would toss a balloon without a string or rubber band to pull it back to you.
The adage “Man’s extremity is the spirit’s opportunity” is accurate because when a person reaches their breaking point, they helplessly give up. His or her situation starts to improve after they unwind from stress and gives the law an receiving a chance to respond to their wants.
The human mind is a sponge. We squeeze it tightly with our nervous thoughts, and it won’t become absorbent and receptive again until we can let go of the strain and allow the sponge to take its regular shape.
The Divine Feminine is a Receiver & The Divine Masculine is a Giver
In some spiritual and metaphysical ideologies, the concept of the divine feminine and divine masculine is associated with the idea of giving and receiving. The divine feminine is often seen as the receptive, nurturing, and intuitive aspect, whereas the divine masculine is viewed as the active, assertive, and giving aspect. These concepts are not limited to gender but are symbolic representations of certain energies or qualities within all individuals.
We all possess feminine and masculine qualities, but I want women to understand that a significant portion of femininity comes from the idea of remaining still and mastering the skill of accepting assistance from others.
Having the freedom to unwind and not have to be a doer. Doers have more male energy. When you interact with a manly man while in your masculine energy, there will be a direct confrontation.
Most women, especially feminine women, and women in general, prefer to date strong guys. Females who operate in their masculine energy more often will find it difficult to attract and/or keep a high-value man.
Who is a high-value man? A high-value man is one who protects and provides for his family, and he struggles to deal with overly masculine women.
Instead, this type of woman will start to attract men who are operating with more feminine energy. Those men are not interested in accomplishing and providing for you, which leaves you with struggle and stress, in addition to the fact that you are not recognizing your actual womanhood.
Why do some women have difficulty with receiving?
As a society, we have been brainwashed as women to believe that we have to be doing the same thing as men, and for some, that mentality started when they were very young.
Here are a few reasons why women have difficulty receiving.
- Single-parent households:
- Women that grew up in single-parent homes where their mothers had to operate in their masculine energy and take on masculine roles, generally have difficulty receiving. Naturally just being an observer and following their model they end up operating with the same energy in their life.
- Two-headed households:
- Women who grew up with their mothers and fathers in their homes are no exception. If the mother is used to operating in her masculine energy, then attracts a man who was operating in his feminine energy, and then they have kids together, the kids model the behavior and the cycle continues.
- The young girl witnesses her dad who may not have been protecting and providing, and attracted a mate who is just like their dad. Meanwhile, they model the behavior of their mother and they operate in their masculine energy more often than not.
- Mothers who resented their past relationships with men
- Furthermore, there are also some women who were raised by mothers who had active resentment towards men based on things that they went through and experienced they put some of those feelings and thoughts into their daughters and made them believe that men are no good.
- Negative self-talk – Distrust
- If someone is asking to help you it must mean that they want to sleep with you or you should expect to get some.
- If someone helps you, then you owe them.
- If someone helps you that has an ulterior motive and you have to keep your eye out for that.
These beliefs can be planted into the minds of both girls and boys before they have a chance to learn how to receive and give.
You do not have to disregard the knowledge that was given to you, but what I want you to do is evaluate it and determine whether or not it is helping you in your adult life or hurting you. Is your life matching up with your beliefs? Are you attracting situations to you?
We can also look at it from a more logical standpoint, sometimes things that are taught to us do have truth in them. Perhaps there are some men who only want to sleep with you and that is why they are going to help you, but in turn, understand the logic behind that. What do you?
You have to make sure that that does not happen to you unless that is what you are seeking. Make sure you are not putting out sexual vibes or telling them that you find them attractive. There are many men and women that will help because they want to and are in the position to do so. Not because they are expecting sexual or non-sexual favors from you.
The Miss “Independent Woman“
Some women are so self-sufficient that they are unable to accept assistance. They feel they have succeeded. They got this. They have no need for others at all. They are able to handle it and take care of things.
Are you there? Does that speak to you?
If so, you’ll need to sit down and have a serious discussion with yourself about the kind of life you want to have. You will need to learn how to do these things if you want to have a good relationship with a man who is acting in his masculinity as a provider, companion, lover, or friend but you are operating as an overly independent and self-sufficient woman.
Also, I hope you understand that you are shortening your life while you are working in that independent state where you do not require anyone’s assistance.
When you are young, believing that you can handle everything on your own may seem straightforward and uncomplicated, but doing so as you age increases your stress levels. Your body and mind are under increased stress as a result of your actions.
By preventing yourself from seeking assistance, you are reducing both your time alone and your time with others.
The Miss “I Do Not Want To Inconvenience You Woman”
There is a group of ladies that struggle significantly with receiving since they detest the concept of inconveniencing or bothering others. They believe that asking for or accepting aid puts someone in a stressful situation or distracts someone from what they are doing.
If someone extends an invitation to assist you in some way, it is entirely up to them. They wanted to, and you’ll see that a lot of people, especially guys, want to assist you because it’s in their nature to do so. Do not feel as though you are disturbing someone when you seek assistance because giving and receiving go hand in hand. Typically, they are thrilled to assist.
The Miss “I Want To Be Treated Equally“
You hear this a lot in the West. Women are standing up and want to be treated equally. They want equal pay, equal opportunities, etc. Although on the surface that may seem empowering, it is not logical.
The working world is designed for men. The 9 to 5 grind is best suited for men’s natural energy cycles, so naturally they have more energy to accomplish the task.
Further, no one, especially an employer has to give anything. Go and create your own work, by being an entrepreneur and that will give you more than the higher pay you are seeking from your boss.
As a feminine woman, you can get help with whatever you want without even asking. When a man sees a woman who just looks like she’s living in her divine feminine energy and she looks cared for, happy, gentle, and sweet they want to protect it, like a diamond.
They want to help you. Some women do not like to be treated that way, because they feel that it makes them less of a person and that is just the complete opposite of the truth.
When you have something that is valuable and precious to you you do not want anything to happen to it. You do not want any harm to come to it. You do not want to distress it. You do not want to injure it. You want it to be safe and cared for and that is how we women should expect to be treated, like a diamond.
If a person wants to treat you like a diamond, say yes and allow them to help you. You will start to realize what that does to you internally. It charges up your feminine energy. You feel beautiful. You feel sexy. You feel cared for and happy.
It gives you a feminine charge and it also does not matter who’s offering the help, whether it’s a male or female or even a kid. If you want to honor your womanhood and live in your divine feminine nature you will say yes, sure, thank you.
Allow yourself to be treated like a diamond.
The Law of Receiving
As it is written, “as you freely give, so you freely receive,” and “it is more blessed to give than to receive.” The Law won’t have any pattern to operate with until we are free to expand or give out our desire, our good. Without a pattern, it cannot continue to provide any needs.
Many people attempt to apply the Law backward and as a result, obtain little to no results. They tell themselves, “After I get it, then I will give”. If you want anything good, you have to start by doing good so that good deeds can grow.
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